6 Questions to Ask Your Local Virtual Therapist

August 14, 2025

Virtual therapy has become an important part of mental health care, providing accessible and flexible support for many individuals. As this form of therapy gains popularity, it’s essential to know how to find a local virtual therapist who fits your needs. Asking the right questions can help you understand what to expect, prepare for your sessions, and ensure the approach suits your unique situation. Here are six key questions to guide your conversation.


1. What Are Their Qualifications and Experience?


The first step is to learn about your virtual therapist’s background. Knowing their education and experience gives you confidence that you’re working with someone qualified. It’s also useful to ask about their areas of focus, such as depression, anxiety, couples therapy, or life transitions, so you can be sure their expertise aligns with your concerns.


2. Which Therapeutic Methods Do They Use?


Different therapists use different approaches based on their training and the issues they treat. For example, cognitive behavioral therapy is often recommended for anxiety and depression, while couples therapy requires tailored techniques. According to Forbes, couples therapy positively impacts 70% of those receiving treatment, showing how effective the right method can be. Understanding their approach helps you decide if it feels right for you.


3. How Are Sessions Scheduled and What Are the Costs?


Knowing the logistics ahead of time is vital for a successful therapy experience. Ask about how often sessions occur, how long each one lasts, and what fees to expect. This transparency ensures therapy fits within your schedule and budget. It’s also important to learn how your local virtual therapist manages emergencies or crises to feel secure beyond routine appointments.


4. How Is Confidentiality and Privacy Ensured?


Since virtual therapy relies on digital platforms, find out how your therapist protects your privacy and keeps your information secure. You might also want to ask what technology or software they use and whether they provide technical support if needed.


5. How Are Goals Set and Progress Measured?


Ask how your virtual therapist sets goals and tracks your progress. Clear objectives and regular check-ins can help keep therapy focused and productive, supporting your growth and healing.


6. Do You Feel Comfortable and Supported by This Therapist?


Finally, it’s important that you feel comfortable with your therapist’s style and communication. Don’t hesitate to ask about their communication preferences and how they handle challenges during sessions. Feeling understood and supported builds a strong therapeutic relationship.


Choosing the right local virtual therapist involves careful consideration and honest conversation. By asking these questions, you’ll be better prepared to find someone who can support you through life’s challenges and transitions. At KLQ Therapy Services, we’re committed to walking with you on your path to emotional wellness, offering individual therapy, couples therapy, life coaching, and more to meet your needs.


6 Questions to Ask Your Local Virtual Therapist
October 10, 2025
When working with clients at KLQ Therapy Services, they're often seeking support for anxiety, burnout, depression, or relationship struggles. But over the years, I’ve come to see a deeper, often overlooked thread woven through many of their stories—something I wish we all learned earlier: mental health is physical health. This truth has been echoed beautifully in two powerful books that have shaped my thinking as a clinician: Gut Feelings by Dr. Will Cole and Brain Food by Dr. Lisa Mosconi. Both explore how our emotional wellness is deeply linked to the health of our bodies—specifically, our gut and brain—and together they reinforce what I see every day in therapy: you can’t treat the mind without supporting the body. Let’s take a closer look at this connection—and how Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), a core approach we use at KLQ, can help you align your physical and emotional health. Your Gut Is Talking—Are You Listening? In Gut Feelings, Dr. Will Cole explains that chronic stress, unresolved trauma, and emotional suppression often manifest as inflammation and imbalance in the gut. This isn’t just a metaphor—it’s biology. The gut, often called the “second brain,” produces over 90% of the body’s serotonin, a key neurotransmitter involved in mood regulation. When the gut is inflamed—due to poor diet, chronic stress, or autoimmune responses—it doesn’t just impact digestion. It affects mood, motivation, focus, and resilience. At KLQ, we recognize this bidirectional relationship: your gut health can impact your mental health, and your mental health can disrupt your digestion, immunity, and sleep. It’s a cycle that needs both medical attention and emotional attunement. Fueling the Brain: What You Eat Shapes How You Think Dr. Lisa Mosconi’s Brain Food dives into the neuroscience behind nutrition. Her research shows that the brain is not just a passive recipient of food—it’s an active participant in choosing, craving, and responding to what we eat. Brain fog, mood swings, and even cognitive decline can stem from nutritional deficiencies. This tells us that mental clarity and emotional regulation require more than mindfulness—they need fuel: omega-3 fatty acids, polyphenols, antioxidants, and a stable blood sugar balance. Simply put, nourishing the brain with real, whole foods is a foundational part of emotional well-being. As therapists, we don’t prescribe diets—but we do encourage holistic awareness. How ACT Helps You Tune In and Take Charge At KLQ Therapy Services, we use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help clients live more fully—even in the presence of discomfort. ACT teaches us to notice our internal experience (thoughts, emotions, urges, and sensations) without judgment, and to take committed action aligned with our values. Here’s how ACT helps integrate mental and physical well-being: - Mindfulness: ACT helps clients become more aware of how their body feels—tense jaw, fluttering stomach, fatigue after meals—and what those sensations might be saying. - Cognitive Defusion: Instead of getting hooked by unhelpful thoughts like “I’m just lazy” or “I’ll never feel better,” ACT teaches us how to step back and see these thoughts for what they are — just thoughts, not facts. One helpful practice is to reframe the thought from “I’ll never feel better” to “I’m having the thought that I’ll never feel better.” This simple shift might seem small, but it creates distance between you and the thought — allowing you to observe it without automatically believing it or letting it dictate your behavior. - Values-Based Living: Whether it’s prioritizing sleep, cooking nourishing meals, or going on daily walks, ACT encourages you to act based on your values—not your mood. By integrating ACT with insights from Gut Feelings and Brain Food, our therapy work becomes more than symptom relief—it becomes a path toward embodied, sustainable wellness. Final Thoughts: Healing is Multidimensional Therapy is powerful. But it’s even more transformative when it’s part of a whole-person approach. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, burnout, or emotional fatigue, consider this: What you feel emotionally may be a reflection of what your body is asking for. At KLQ Therapy Services, we’re here to walk with you—whether it’s through untangling old narratives, building emotional flexibility, or reconnecting to your physical body with curiosity and compassion. Healing is not just in your head. It’s in your habits, your gut, your breath, and your plate. Let’s nourish all of you. Warmly, Kristin Quihuis, LMFT Founder, KLQ Therapy Services